Digital Nomad Life in Alabang, Philippines

"Expats living in Alabang can join a variety of clubs and activities, such as golf, tennis, and swimming. There are also a number of international schools and organizations that offer activities and events for expats. Additionally, there are many restaurants, bars, and cafes that are popular gathering spots for expats. Expats can also meet people by attending local festivals and events, joining language classes, or volunteering with local charities," said one expat in Alabang.

"Life for expats and digital nomads in Alabang is generally quite pleasant. The city is known for its low cost of living, making it an attractive destination for those looking to stretch their budget. The city is also home to a vibrant expat community, with plenty of opportunities to meet and socialize with other expats. The city is well-connected, with easy access to the rest of the country, and the nearby beaches and mountains provide plenty of opportunities for outdoor activities. The city also offers a wide range of amenities, from shopping malls to restaurants, making it easy to find what you need. All in all, Alabang is an ideal destination for expats and digital nomads looking for a comfortable and affordable place to live," explained one person living in Alabang, Philippines.

"One option for finding a place to live in Alabang is to search online for rental listings. Websites such as Lamudi, Zipmatch, and Property24 offer a variety of rental listings in the area. Additionally, you can search for rental listings on social media platforms such as Facebook and Twitter. You can also contact local real estate agents who specialize in the Alabang area to help you find a place to live. Finally, you can ask friends and family who live in the area for recommendations," said one person in Alabang.

"Before retiring in Alabang, expats should be aware of the cost of living, which is generally lower than in other parts of the country. They should also research the availability of healthcare services and the quality of the local infrastructure. Additionally, expats should familiarize themselves with the local culture and customs, as well as the language, to ensure a smooth transition. Finally, it is important to research the local job market and the availability of recreational activities in the area," explained one expat living in Alabang, Philippines.

"Expats in Alabang appreciate the friendly and welcoming nature of the local people. They also enjoy the laid-back atmosphere and the relaxed pace of life. The local cuisine is also a highlight, with its unique blend of flavors and spices. The city is also known for its vibrant nightlife, with plenty of bars, clubs, and restaurants to explore. Additionally, the city is home to a variety of cultural attractions, such as museums, galleries, and historical sites," said one person in Alabang.

"One thing that bothers me about sites for expats is that they seem to be a sounding board for frustrations, so I'm so glad that this question is here. By far, the best thing about the Philippines is the people. I have never encountered a more optimistic group in all my life. They help one another when they are in trouble. Families are close. For the most part, the people are not driven by what brands they wear or type of car they drive (though sadly there are signs that this is starting to slowly change in the metro areas). Filipinos will break out into song or dance the newest pop-dance while living in conditions that would have Americans lying on the floor crying. I have had so many strangers try to feed me, just because we were out and about somewhere and happened to pass a birthday party or family gathering. Everyone is welcome at all times," said one expat who made the move to Alabang.

"Expats in Alabang often find the language barrier to be the most challenging aspect of the local culture. Many locals speak Tagalog, which can be difficult for expats to understand. Additionally, the local customs and traditions can be difficult to navigate for those who are not familiar with them. Expats may also find the traffic and congestion in Alabang to be overwhelming, as the city is known for its heavy traffic. Finally, the cost of living in Alabang can be high, making it difficult for expats to adjust to the local economy," said one expat in Alabang.

"As one expat has mentioned here about crab mentality in Filipinos I never knew what it meant. It was not until I started building my wee bungalow with pool that my once friendly neighbour and family in the province started ignoring me. Believe it or believe it not, if you really dig into the Filipino psychi that you realise they don't like seeing others getting on when they are not, they just hide things deep down and hold grudges just like westerners. Do you know any Filipino expats in your country?? In my country I see how their mindset changes, that open friendliness changes, they become less approachable. Another thing I have first hand experience with, Filipinos, they do not like to spend money on anyone other than themselves or family. I have never in all my years been treated to a lunch or dinner by a Filipino, it's always me paying even though I know they work in good jobs and have a good bank balance, they will still not buy for you like you buy for them. . Only one time a Filipino guy did buy me a beer but he was visiting from Canada. Apart from that, I think in general many many are very tight with money especially if you are a foreigner in their company. I dated a Filipina for a few days years back, she let slip over a few beers that she had a coconut plantation that gives her a good income 4 times a year during harvest time, plus she worked as an events organiser who earned a good salary. She lived in a nice apartment in Quezon city, had the latest iPhone, laptop and much more. For the first few days together I paid everything not knowing this, I even flights to Boracay, hotel etc, all the meals, beer even for the odd bottle of water at 7/11. Never did she once opened her wallet to buy a water, an ice-cream or beer. When she told me over the beers about all her assets and bank balance, I was shocked, next day I told her it's time to say goodbye, I was horrified to think she sat and enjoyed a free ride without even making a some contribution to expenses. My mind has since changed a lot about Filipinos the more time I live among them, they are no different to westerners really," remarked one member in Alabang.

"Filipinos, generally speaking, do not do sarcasm. I've had to learn how to dial my sarcasm way, way back. On the flipside, when they do try sarcasm, they are generally really bad at it, and it can come off as just purely mean. So you have to learn to have thick skin. Also, ignoring sarcasm all together, there are different observational boundaries here. They will openly comment on your appearance in ways that Americans won't. (Wow, you're fat! You're SO tall! Your feet are HUGE!) This will sometimes be accompanied with pokes or pinches. This is all observational. Nothing mean is meant by it, despite how we've been conditioned to hear it. As a parent, the other thing that has been very hard to get used to is that women I've never seen before will touch my children. There is still a belief here among some that what a mother sees or touches while she's pregnant will affect the looks of her unborn child. The Philippines is a country that, right or wrong, aesthetically prizes light skin and European noses, so it's not uncommon for young women to come up to my children when we are out and about and just start stroking their cheeks. Sometimes you also come across older ladies who just like to stroke and pet cute little kids, no matter what their race, and feel free to do so. My kids are used to it now, but I still have to control the urge to tell these women to step back and keep their hands to themselves. Nothing untoward is meant by it, and it's actually a complement; they are saying they think my kids are cute. So, thanks for that? I just bite my tongue and move us along as soon as we can. I know a lot of expats struggle with the feeling of being overcharged for items or services. This does happen. Do your research beforehand on what things should cost. If you think the price is too high, just stand there for a moment, holding or looking at the item and often they will lower the price. You can try asking what their "last price" is. Sometimes asking them what the price would be if you need a receipt will lower the price, too, especially if they are just working the booth and not the owners, because they would get fired if the booth owner sees they are overcharging and pocketing the difference. Agree to prices before you get into a tricycle or get a massage or any sort of service agreement. Finally, if the price is only slightly inflated, and you can afford it, consider just paying it. Unless you are here living on a Filipino salary yourself and honestly can't afford the "foreigner tax", then look at the extra dollar or two as a form of charity. Do not let your retail experiences contaminate your feelings toward all Filipinos. My Filipino friends are embarrassed and shocked to hear what shopping can be like for me," explained one expat living in Alabang, Philippines.

"If you plan to stay in Alabang for a while, you will need to obtain a valid visa from the Philippine Embassy or Consulate in your home country. Depending on the length of your stay, you may need to apply for a Temporary Visitor's Visa, a Special Resident Retiree's Visa, or a Permanent Resident Visa. Additionally, you may need to obtain a Certificate of Residency from the Bureau of Immigration in the Philippines," said one expat who made the move to Alabang.

"1. I had my "what the crap am I doing in this country?!" moment in the middle of a small mall in a rural province, including full-on sobs. That was an interesting moment of my life. *ahem* 2. I have gotten in trouble over food before. I *hate* fish and seafood, and in a country where the people both eat a lot of those foods AND like to feed other people, I know I have caused offense by refusing to try certain dishes. At this point, I claim it's an allergy and people aren't offended when I say no. If you do try something, never, NEVER insult it or insinuate that you don't like it. Even if it is cake with cheese on top. 3. Once, I got so out-of-my-mind frustrated with an employee in a store that I started yelling at him. I very, very rarely ever get to the point of yelling. It's happened maybe twice before this story. But it was a very frustrating situation, and getting that point would have been understood in the US. Here, if you get to that point, you can instantly see that the person you are yelling at has lost all respect for you. You are acting like a child and you've given them permission to completely ignore you at that point. The more frustrated you are, the more polite you need to get if you expect to get anything done. 4. All of that said, the most embarrassing series of events I ever witnessed was when we went away with 3 other American couples for a weekend. Two of the other ladies decided they didn't like the music playing in the seaside restaurant where we were having dinner, so they went over and plugged in an ipod to the sound system and just took it over. The staff didn't know what to do, so they just let them do it, but the quality of the service we received from that moment forth was awful. Later, we went on a boat ride over the ocean and up a river a little ways to see the stars and some fireflies and the whole time, these people were filling the beautiful night with loud insults about the Philippines and jokes about poop like they were 12 year-olds. I don't know what they were thinking. If your behavior would brand you as a self-centered moron in your home country, then the fact that you act that way in a foreign country and think it's ok because you are paying the people around you or you assume they can't understand what you are saying makes you a complete and total ingrate. Don't do those things," said one expat in Alabang.

"It is important to be mindful of cultural norms when visiting Alabang. It is important to dress modestly and to avoid wearing revealing clothing. It is also important to be respectful of religious beliefs and to avoid making jokes or comments about them. Additionally, it is important to be aware of the local customs and to avoid making assumptions about the culture. It is also important to be respectful of the local language and to avoid speaking English in public places. Finally, it is important to be respectful of the local people and to avoid making negative comments about them," remarked one member in Alabang.

"Alabang is home to a variety of healthcare services. The city is home to several hospitals, including Asian Hospital and Medical Center, Ospital ng Muntinlupa, and Alabang Medical Center. Additionally, there are numerous clinics and specialty centers, such as the Alabang Eye Center, the Alabang Dental Clinic, and the Alabang Women's Health Center. These facilities provide a range of services, from general check-ups and preventive care to more specialized treatments. Furthermore, Alabang is home to a number of pharmacies, providing access to medications and other health-related products," said one foreigner in Alabang.

"Expats and digital nomads living in Alabang appreciate the city's convenient location near the airport, shopping malls, and other amenities. They also enjoy the city's low cost of living, which allows them to stretch their budget further. Additionally, the city's warm climate and friendly locals make it a great place to live. On the other hand, some expats and digital nomads may find the city's traffic and pollution to be a downside," said one member in Alabang.